Best Place To Meet Women (Don’t rationalize this message, if not meeting women GO OUT & APPROACH!)
DONT RATIONALIZE THIS MESSAGE. I hit on truth, but at the same time this message is very easy to rationalize.. If you have a fear of asking out women.. put yourself out there socially & ask out girls! Go do daygame. Go to a place where a girl your crushing on is for the purpose of asking her out and ask her out. Fake your fears! DEF Watch this follow up vid I made on this topic: http://youtu.be/ktzQReHWlbE
The point of this vid was to focus on living a life of EXCITEMENT and doing what YOU ENJOY.. and when moving forward in life, the inspiration to talk to girls / approach girls, even if your very nervous at first, should naturally come along your journey
If I told you ______ and ______ were the best places to meet women, you would go to those places looking to get something out of them. Which is completely fine and okay! Go do that here and there. But I propose a deeper way to think about “where’s the best place to meet women?”. This philosophy at its core has very little to do with logistics, but more to do with how YOU are living your life.
Remember, separation is an illusion. There is no separation between you and the rest of reality. There is nothing to “get out” of life. But as you improve your relationship to life, that will get you into more of a “flow”.
How can you improve your relationship with life itself to get more into “the flow”?
Be a man with a HIGHER PURPOSE (Your career, making the world a better place, improving yourself, MOVING FORWARD in some way etc.) (I think this actually is probably the most important thing & I wish I talked about this in the video)
Chase EXCITEMENT / passions / adventure / dream job / a challenge?
(Maybe going out and picking up girls is the exciting thing for you..)
Face a fear / anxieties?
Is there a problem in your life you can solve?
Being more honest with life and others?
Are there bullshit stuff in your life that you just gotta take care of which are holding you down?
Can you see the hardship in your life being there for greater purpose / teaching a lesson?
To get the most flow flowin’, what is the most extreme fear you can tackle? What is something that SUPER excites you? Hit the EXTREMES!
I love this quote:
“Everything changes when you start to emit your own frequency rather than absorbing the frequencies around you, when you start imprinting your intent on the universe rather than receiving an imprint from existence.”
Go somewhere by yourself. Go to new places. Go to new restaurants to eat. Explore your town! Do your work in a college library. Put yourself out there socially. Join clubs / activities that genuinely interest you. Say yes to every single social invite that comes your way.
Do yoga, join a book club, salsa dancing, solo-holiday, whatever… it doesn’t matter, as long you GENUINELY WANT to do that particular activity, but there is also NOTHING wrong with hoping to meet a lass there too…
I feel lot of guys who don’t enjoy bars and clubs go there just to meet girls. That would be the biggest example of where I would hope this video “clicks” for them & that they don’t need to go to places where they don’t like going just to meet girls.
Do something alone. Start with going to the grocery store alone lol. Don’t always rely on the energy of others’ like friends.
Lots of times getting into this “flow” of life will require that YOU do some “solo” work. Don’t do things based on societies intentions: friend’s , family’s, or business partner’s intentions, etc.. Go do things alone.
Also don’t be retarded and expect “the flow” to do ALL the work. You still need to talk to girls, exercise COURAGE, ask women out, etc.. But the experience should be much, much, much more flowing, natural, and inspired
Regarding all the messages I have ever given on youtube, I ask you guys to take nothing on my word, but to *test* the principles and the methods for yourselves and to always think critically. Take what resonates with you. Don’t rationalize this as an excuse. still go out for the purpose of meeting girls. Go do daygame. If you want something go get it. Just sharing a perspective
OR, you guys can prove me wrong. Do the EXACT opposite of my advice and go to a yoga studio with the intention of doing it mainly to meet women, go to locations where SURROUNDED by attractive women! haha. Doing the complete opposite of what I’m saying and going to a place where TONS of women would be to test this out actually sounds really fun haha.
Checkout my “Lone Wolf Paradigm” vid: http://youtu.be/TXsDzjJl8zE
“You’re Going To Regret Watching This Video”: http://youtu.be/7IeJukHk6cQ
BTW, this concept also applies to meeting men for you ladies aswell
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